The short answer
What Illinois families should know.
Parenting coordination can address recurring conflict over implementation of a parenting plan. Illinois Supreme Court Rule 909 defines the role and its limits. The appointment order and applicable local rule matter, so parents should understand the coordinator's authority before the first meeting.
Use the role for implementation problems
Typical disputes concern exchanges, existing activities, holiday scheduling, communication, and minor schedule adjustments within the permitted scope. A coordinator can help clarify expectations and reduce repeated conflict. This process differs from an initial trial over how significant decisions and parenting time should be allocated.
Recognize the limits
Rule 909 excludes recommendations concerning initial allocation of decision-making, substantial parenting-time allocation beyond permitted minor changes, relocation, establishment of nonparent visitation, and financial matters such as support or property division. An appointment order should not be treated as an unlimited transfer of judicial power.
Understand recommendations and court review
The rule requires compliance with recommendations unless and until the court rules otherwise through the specified review process. A parent who disagrees should obtain advice about a motion for review rather than simply ignore the recommendation. The circuit court reviews the issue under the rule's stated standard, and fee consequences may follow an unsuccessful challenge.
Address safety, confidentiality, and cost
The rule requires attention to intimate-partner violence and appropriate protocols. Communications are not automatically confidential, and parents should not assume they are having a private therapy conversation. Fees are allocated as ordered or agreed within the applicable framework. Ask for a clear explanation of communication methods, billing, document access, and how urgent concerns are handled.
Prepare
Useful next steps
- Read Rule 909, the local rule, and the actual appointment order together.
- Bring the current parenting plan and a concise list of recurring disputes.
- Ask how safety concerns, recommendations, review requests, and fees are handled.
Avoid
Common missteps
- Treating the coordinator as a substitute for a relocation or support hearing.
- Ignoring a recommendation without using the court-review process.
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