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Child Custody & Parenting Time

Illinois separates significant decision-making responsibilities from parenting time. A workable parenting plan must address both.

Parents still use the word custody, but Illinois law focuses on allocation of parental responsibilities. Significant decision-making may include education, health, religion, and extracurricular activities. Parenting time addresses the schedule and the practical terms that make it function.

The best-interest factors are specific, and the strongest case is usually grounded in the child's actual life: caregiving history, school and medical needs, each parent's ability to cooperate, transportation, safety, relationships, and a realistic schedule—not labels or generalized attacks.

Scope of representation

Parenting issues we help clients address

  • Allocation of significant decision-making responsibilities
  • Regular, holiday, vacation, and school-break parenting schedules
  • Transportation, exchanges, communication, travel, and right-of-first-refusal terms
  • Temporary parenting time while a case is pending
  • Guardians ad litem, evaluators, child representatives, and other court-appointed professionals
  • Relocation, modification, enforcement, and restrictions when serious endangerment is alleged
  • Parentage and parenting plans for unmarried parents

How we approach the work

Build a plan a family can actually follow

A parenting proposal should reflect work schedules, school geography, developmental needs, existing routines, transportation, and the parents' demonstrated ability to communicate. Vague language often shifts conflict from the courtroom into every weekly exchange.

When allegations are disputed, disciplined evidence matters. Contemporaneous school, medical, calendar, communication, and exchange records are generally more useful than escalating text arguments or asking a child to choose sides.

Illinois family-law insights

Frequently asked questions

Clear answers to the first questions.

Does Illinois automatically order 50/50 parenting time?

No. Parenting time is allocated according to the child's best interests under statutory factors. Equal time may fit some families, but there is no universal schedule.

At what age can a child choose where to live?

Illinois has no magic age at which a child controls the result. A child's wishes may be considered in light of maturity and ability to express reasoned, independent preferences, together with all other best-interest factors.

Can a parenting schedule be changed later?

Yes, but the governing standards depend on what is being changed, how much time has passed, the existing judgment, and the facts supporting modification. An informal practice does not always change the court order.

What if the other parent violates the parenting plan?

Preserve a neutral record of the missed time or conduct, review the exact judgment language, and avoid retaliatory violations. Enforcement, make-up time, clarification, or modification may be appropriate depending on the pattern and harm.